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š„³ How Remote Work Changed My Life
Plus: How would you use an extra 10+ hours per week?

Hello there š
āHey, theyāre sending Theodore home. Heās got hand-foot-and-mouth.ā
Itās a tango every daycare parent knows well:
You send them off to daycareā¦
Only for them to catch every cootie known to mankindā¦
And get sent back home š
āCan you go pick him up?ā my wife asked.
My answer?
Of course.
I can drop everything and go get himā¦
No calling out or asking permissionā¦
I can make up work at night or over the weekendā¦
All because remote work makes it possible.
This was true for our other kids, too.
When Annabel would get ear infections:

Or to mind Oliver, during the Covid-19 pandemic.
Remote work helped me be there for my familyā¦
AND progress in my career.
And Iām not just talking about when they got sick or were sent home from school.
I've been able to show up for the fun stuff too: The impromptu day trips. The "parent days" at school. The special lunches just because.
All those little moments that make up a life well-lived.
š¢ āWhen will all the work be worth it?ā
I met my friend, Alex, for lunch the other day. We met at an Indian spot in central Jersey, 30 minutes away from where we went to university.
Heās got a terrific career: impressive title, good salary, benefits, and meaningful responsibility.
On paper, heās āwinning.ā
But he dreads waking up every morning:
The hour-long commute that steals time from his kids
Pointless office meetings that could have been emails
A rigid schedule that leaves little room for things that actually matter
At one point, he put his fork down.
āWhatās the point of this career?ā he said.
And what he said next still haunts me:
āIt feels like my whole life is on holdājust so I can clock in for someone else.ā
What Iāve realized after talking to hundreds of people about their careers:
Alex isnāt alone.
There are so many of us who feel trapped in a work system that wasnāt designed for us.
Weāre required to be always available on Slack, digitally and figuratively chained to the desk.
We're voluntold to attend after-hours "optional" social events that aren't optional.
We watch our vacation days pile up because "there's never a good time" to use them.
And when we ask for more flexibility?
We get vague promises:
āWeāll revisit that next quarter.ā
āMaybe when youāre more senior.ā
āWe need you in the office for āculture.āā
š¢ We assume work is supposed to take priority over everything else.
We think freedom at work is something you have to āearnā over decades.
We believe that if we just work hard enough, weāll eventually get more control.
But if that were trueāwhy do so many of us still feel stuck?
Year after year, we follow the same routine, hoping things will change.
Yet nothing does.
š” But what if your job fit around your life instead?
Imagine waking up and designing your day on your own terms:
ā No more commutes. Work from a quiet home office or a cafĆ© in Lisbon.
ā No more pointless meetings. Get deep work done without distractions.
ā No more asking for permission. Take a mid-day gym break or school pickup without guilt.
ā No more waiting. Travel off-season, avoid crowds, live life fullyāright now.
This isnāt some fantasy. Itās real life for thousands of people who have landed remote jobsāeven without special skills or industry connections.
āļø Most people believe they need to overhaul their entire career to make remote work possible.
But the truth is:
Youāre probably closer than you think.
Maybe you already have skills that translate to remote rolesāyou just havenāt positioned them right.
Maybe youāre stuck in a company that refuses to change, when other companies would happily let you work from anywhere.
Maybe all thatās missing is a planāone clear next stepāto start making remote work a reality.
š« So what would your ideal remote life look like?
Imagine it for a second. No commutes, no pointless meetings, no feeling trapped.
Conservatively, let's say you saved an extra 10 hours per week by going remote.
That's over 500 hours a yearānearly three weeks of your life back.
I already shared how remote work changed my life:
Iām there for morning drop off and pick ups
I have flexibility when daycare sends them home unexpectedly
I can leave early for holidays and family trips without rushing through traffic
Yes, for me, these benefits totally revolve around my kids right now. Thatās just the season of my life at the moment; I call it the āera of love and chaosā š¤£
But Iād love to hear: how would remote work change your life?
Would you:
šāāļø Train for that half-marathon you've been putting off?
š Finally write that book you've been thinking about for years?
šļø Pack a bag and start traveling the world with your new freedom?
The world is your oyster.
Iād love to hear from you:
What would your ideal remote life look like?
Reply and tell meāI read every response.
Best,
Chris
P.S. If youāre thinking, āOkay, but where do I start?āādonāt worry. More on that soon. Stay tuned for an announcement tomorrow.
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